All Other Things

Posts Tagged ‘family

I think it is only appropriate to start this series at the beginning. To start it with the reason I was able to go to Nigeria for the first time in my 27 years of life. Ideally, my whole family would have gone, but lack of finances did not allow it to be so. Therefore, exactly half of my family was able to go: My dad, my sister and me.

nigeria-2008

Visiting family, was obviously a major reason for our trip. However, it was not the only reason. See, my dad is a pastor and he was invited to preach at a conference in one of the biggest churches in Nigeria: The Redeemed Evangelical Mission (TREM). This conference ran from November 17th-23rd and featured special guests from all over the Africa and the world. The theme of the conference was “A God Said…” For my first week in Nigeria, I went to church basically all day every day. And athough I suffered from jetlag, it was an enjoyable experience. God was evident everywhere.

nigeria

The other reason we went to Nigeria was for my Dad’s charity: REST International Ministries. The last time my dad traveled to Nigeria was in 2006. While he was there, he visited various schools and was amazed at their conditions. One such school was Ozar Secondary School in Abia State. This is a government school and many government schools are in deplorable states. Living in Canada, it is so obvious that we take school for granted. We expect to have doors on our buildings. They do not. We expect to have desks to sit in and equipment to use. They are thankful if they do. We expect to use a functioning bathroom at least once per day. They do not even have a functioning bathroom on the premises. This is what my dad saw in 2006.

ozar-2006

So he took it upon himself to help make a difference. Upon returning to Canada, he started fundraising for desks. My Dad ended up raising enough money to make 100 three-seater desks for the school (there are 400 students) and 8 desks for the principal and teachers.

nigeria-2008-12

My dad is a humble man. He did not think that what he did was a big deal. He thought that he would just go to the school and hand over the desks. Many had to convince him that his act of philanthropy was, in fact, a big deal. It turned out that there was a whole big ceremony.

nigeria-2008-111

They welcomed him with singing:

nigeria-2008-13

They welcomed him with dancing.

nigeria-2008-121

They even presented him with a chief’s hat and outfit. Government officials were also invited, although I do not remember who they were.

nigeria-2008-14
The students and the administrators were so thankful. It was a very amazing and humbling experience. It just puts into perspective what we take for granted here every day. These kids were happy to get desks. Can you imagine?

nigeria-2008-15

So, that is the back-story explaining why I went to Nigeria.

nigeria3Stay tuned for more!

Advertisements

nigeria

I am back from, as my friend so eloquently put it, my OHMYGOSHHOWLONGWASTHISVACATION six week Nigeria trip. And let me tell you, it was unbelievable. First time to Nigeria and first time meeting the majority of my family. Before this trip, I had only met one Auntie and one Uncle on my dad’s side and then my maternal grandma. I have now met everyone which includes my mom’s 2 sisters and one brother, their spouses, and my 9 cousins. And I saw my grandma again. On my dad’s side, I finally got to meet my dad’s step mom, my youngest uncle (a mere 10 years my senior), my uncle’s fiance, my dad’s brother in law and my cousin. I also got to see my dad’s sister again after 18 years.

My dad and I stayed in Nigeria for six weeks and my sister was there for three. Yes, we took plenty of pictures. And when I say plenty, multiply that number in your head by 1000. Because my sister is studying photography and has a Nikon D300, most of the pictures that I will be using in my upcoming posts will be hers. Because they’re brilliant. And we also have tons of video.

So please, let me jetlag detox, but keep your eyes open for many upcoming posts chronicling my adventures.

(haha, a picture of a boy, not related. Just lived in the apartment below my Auntie and Uncle, where we stayed the majority of the time in Lagos. Loved him. Don’t even know his name…)

p1110137

God is Good.

Well, I just woke up from a nightmare and now I can’t sleep. So I decided that it was a fantastic opportunity to blog. So I give you Things I Don’t Understand (Perhaps it will be Part I, as there are bound to be more things in the future). Oh, and keep in mind that these will be random. They are in no particular order. Come on now, it’s 3 o’clock in the morning.

Ok…

1. How people can snore so loudly.

2. Why I can’t fall asleep when I hear a person snoring, even in the other room.

3. Why people, especially in LA, suffer from the “false sense of power” syndrome.

4. How I have texted over 1100 messages this month (well, incoming are counted, but still…).

5. How it can be nearly 2009.

6. Why I have been single for almost 27 years.

7. Why I can’t find an awesome Christian man who LOVES the Lord, loves kids, is athletic, is responsible, is respectful and plays the cello (haha, jk…or am I?)… (see, I’m not picky). 🙂

8. Why an awesome Christian man who LOVES the Lord, loves kids, is athletic, is responsible, is respectful and plays the cello (haha, jk) can’t find me.

9. Why people always compare black people, especially children, to edible items, namely, chocolate.

10. Why people think black people enjoy being compared to edible things, namely chocolate.

11. Why I can spend so much time on the internet.

12. Why I can’t speak another language.

13. Why I’m told, “you’re beautiful” by other girls, gay guys and my parents, but never aforementioned Christian guys.

14. Why it’s so friggin (pardon my language) expensive to fly to Nigeria.

15. Why countries in Africa are always referred to simply as Africa.

16. Why my family is so awesome!

17. Why it’s so expensive for a black girl to get her hair done.

18. Why I’m sometimes still afraid of the dark.

19. How God is so good!

20. Why God is still so good to me!

Phew. There! That’s 20. Now I think I will attempt to go back to sleep. The nightmare is gone and the snoring has stopped. 🙂

What are some things you don’t understand?

Emmanuel

Posted on: March 27, 2008

Just look at my first baby brother.

em-and-charles.jpg

Ummm… yeah…

Ok, remember when I asked you to pray in this post? Well, things did not work out quite as I had hoped. The long story short is that we were praying for my foster brother to be placed back into our home. We had had him from when he just turned 6 to 9 1/2 years of age. The only reason he left our house was because he got a new, incompetent social worker (I really want to describe her in other words, but… let’s just say she is lucky that I do not curse). He was removed from our home and placed with a couple that could not deal with him and within a month and a half was placed into another home where he remained until this last January. This was in 2002. In January 2008, we learned that he was in a group home. My dad went down to the office, in person, to tell them that the group home was not the best place for him. He said that we were willing to take him back immediately. They told him that they will talk to his resource worker and then they will get back to us. That was two Mondays ago. The news now? He’s getting adopted by another family. 😦

I know that I should be happy that he is being adopted and that he has stability, however, I am NOT happy for selfish reasons. He is MY brother. He called my mom and dad mom and dad. He was the ball boy at all my sibling’s and my games. He was the fifth child in our church directory for goodness sakes! The only reason he is not in our home today is due to a st*pid (and I think racist) social worker and an incompetent ministry.

Yes, I am sad… you don’t even know. But I wish him all the best. He knows our family loves him. Besides, God’s way is the best way. He knows what He is doing.

Please pray that God will help take the bitterness from my heart. Please pray for my brother and his new family.

Thank you for your prayers.

Tags:

RSS What I am doing!

  • An error has occurred; the feed is probably down. Try again later.
September 2018
M T W T F S S
« Mar    
 12
3456789
10111213141516
17181920212223
24252627282930
Advertisements